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Joan fucking Rivers is today's Short Duration Personal Savior. 071214 day of St. Pam Grier

I just saw Letterman turn a shoulder on her because she could admit that people from tvland actually poop.

Then thishttps://www.tytnetwork.com/2014/07/10/joan-rivers-furiously-walks-cnn-interview/

And it's kinda disheartening that there is no physical age at which someone is allowed to subvert the local paradigm.  

But it's super encouraging that even one person is willing to talk about poop loudly on late night tv, because we all do it.  If even one thing is allowed to pass without comment, there is always a place for evil to hide.

Right up your asses kids.  Wanna know where the Devil lives?  Anywhere the sun don't shine.  Take em out for Jesus bitches.

Please, tell me more about my privilege. I cannot observe it from within it.

Sorry Zuckerburg, but I had to go off and compose my thoughts.

First, state my assumptions:

No one knows what the fuck they are talking about, including me.

It is only through direct communication that available variety of experience comes into being within a personal reality.

Shit.  How do I dumb that down into a jingle so Americans can begin to build the foundation of the root of understanding?  That I may understand?

Assuming you have any idea at all is the root of all miscommunication.

How I interpret feminist complaints about men not doing"X"

Daddy was a shitty father cus he didn't have one to teach him how.

The guy I'm blowing won't take me out on the town.

Life is hard.  Buy me stuff cus I'm pretty.

If you don't I'm being oppressed by men.  

Because doing both the work for the money and the work of shopping is below me somehow.

Blow me, somehow.

MRA NOW Feminist Then. We dare not go a-dating, for fear of other men.

Hey y'all, 

I'm not with these guys.

I stand in solidarity, with my gender, against blanket statements about same....

Because not all men because not all women are exactly the same...

Men have traditionally been problem solvers in service of all.

But who will help with men's problems?

Oh they don't have any, or it's their fault for being men, are not acceptable answers.

Boys will be boys forever if there are no men left, to teach them what men are.

Ladies don't get to tell us anything if they can't say it directly.

Implications and suggestions fall on deaf ears when they're couched in anger.

Your messages are hampered by your tone.

Passive Aggression means nothing to those most often exposed to Active Aggression.

Suffering IS universal.  No matter how rich or poor, or what gender or race, everyone can find something about which to complain.  That they are rich does not invalidate their complaint, that they are gendered does not invalidate their complaints.

Complaints are not facts or statements of obligation.  

Negative statements must be made at times because swallowing too many such statements is a kind of poison.  

Silence changes nothing.

Speaking in anger is the next worse thing.

Even worse than that,  I had a friend, a biological female, playing at being a man, 

calling herself a man, acting as if she is a man, rant at length on male obligation to act civilized, on how horrible men were for looking upon shim with lustful eyes (I'm sure they could have perceived murderous intent in same without actually verifying through investigatory conversation as well, who can say, who can tell?).  

It was supremely hard not to tell her to man up.

I'm tired of being mind read.  

I'm tired of having my intentions explained to me instead of explored with me.

I have no more idea what I'm doing in this world than you do.

Stop accusing me and my gender of efficient organization collaboration and collusion.

We have as many group meetings as women do.

But most of its wasted talking sports.

If anyone wants to stop being called manipulative then maybe direct ugly truth maybe.

If you want to transform the world, start with yourself and branch out to other similarly inclined people gradually improving the situation, naturally, indirectly, and collectively.

If you want to take out an entire gender or race, design a superweapon.

But don't make my problems yours, I mean your problems mine.

I'm sure we both started with the ones we needed.